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Unqualified Dating Advice from a Middle-Age man: For Gen Z and younger.

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INTRODUCTION:

Well, I’m middle age. There is no doubt about this, as my grey hairs have accumulated more. Granted, the first Grey hairs I ever had was as a teenager, at 16, but now the bottom of my beard is white and the sides of my head look like I belong at a Grateful Dead concert, but much like Jerry Garcia, I will get by.

So I have been around long enough and experimented with people in a plethora of ways. Nothing weird or unscrupulous. As such, I have shifted through a lot of data that, mostly was originally meant for Pre-Crime: The Future is Now V1, 2018 available on this website. I’m working on V2, which hopefully I will compete by 2025.

Now, I was fairly knowledgeable in my youth. I mean, I was a predominantly A student, but there is still some things even I didn’t know until I was in my 20s. Take for instance Friend Zones.. Didn’t know that was a thing until that Ryan Reynolds’s movie came out. I was 19 when it came out, didn’t see it until I was 21. if you asked me when I was a kid, what that was, I probably would’ve thought it was a hidden Sonic The hedgehog level that only game shark or game genie could unlock, you know, back before the video game industry made you pay for unlockables instead of earning them or using aforementioned machines to cheat your way to them. I was a polarizing teenager, you either loved me or hated me, there was really no in between. Still isn’t for me, but at least in my advanced years, it’s hopefully for more than just typical dull bullshit, I guess that depends on where I go though.

So this is primarily written towards Gen Z, whom will likely take the most from it. While most of it will, hopefully be ever green, I can’t garuntee it. So anyone born post Gen Z can take what works for them and everything else with a grain of salt.

Typical everyday Gen Z are going to be the ones that get the most from this book. If your parents are Gen X, thumbs up. If you, unfortunately have parents my age, or the millennial personality, you’re probably not going to get too much out of it. Although there will always be exceptions to the rule, so you’re welcome to try the data out for yourself, but the most woman are probably going to be put off by your toy buying ways. If you’re a chick reading this, you’ll be in slightly good luck as there is something’s that I noticed that Gen Z girls can slightly improve on, nothing too drastic as I seen your moms make similar mistakes when I was growing up and your dads too!

FRIEND-ZONES

So we’re starting here. It’s important because it going to be the place that influences pretty much everything in your life. How? Well, while I never really understood this, some people of both male and female varieties take things personally. Even Ryan Reynolds’s character did. Pre-crime 2 will dive deeper into what seems to make up the mind set of this type of individual, but thankfully, we don’t need that here.

So basically a friend zone is when you, the man, make a mistake by not being manly and striking while the iron is hot. Thus you get micro penalized for it. It’s kinda like hockey, you get ejected from the game and into the penalty box with no predestination of time you’re going to be there.

Thankfully for you, there is a way out of it. It’s called “Not giving a fuck.” See, as in the movie, sometimes you’re making yourself too available and well, simping. You got the L rizz and no cap, you ain’t coming back from that. Best way to get the W rizz is get away from her for a bit and don’t pedestalize the woman in question. Girls, same goes for you and the boy you like not seeing it in ya.

Why is this? Because you’re coming off subservient to the individual. It’s one thing to be low key, it another to be lowly. Men and woman have different strengths and weaknesses, but one of the universal traits is undesirable humility. There is Humble and then there is lowly stature. Even the science backs up the idea of healthy functioning narcissism vs Narricstic Personality Disorder or the opposite of feeble mindedness.

Granted you’re occasionally going to come across people , which while they aren’t way more common in my age range than it seems to be in yours, so delusional that anything less than that level of mental illness is seen as humble, simply because it’s not as bat shit insane as they are. Avoid these people!

I know a majority of you are smart enough to see this as a red flag, but that doesn’t always help. For example, when I was 22, met a woman through an adult education system. We barely knew each other, we’re not talking like know each other by years here, but days. Less than a month I would reckon and she was all like “tell me you love me.” What in the blue fuck? She had skibbity L toliet rizz. Thankfully she eventually fucked off, but weirdest year of my life. The biggest give away should have been the weird fucking spelling of her name, it was redneck as fuck. Needless to say she was not very mindful, not very demure. Got to yeet them outta there!

Back to the friend zone in question, there is also nothing wrong with being friends with a woman in general as plenty of other things can prevent you from getting with said person. Remember, being friends with a homosexual that is a lesbian for a man or a gay man for a female isn’t a friend zone, it’s security in yourself. While not everyone will appreciate your lack of insecurity at a young age, as you get older the right people will.

While there may be more nuance here and there, the basic gist of how one ends up in a friend zone has been covered as well as how to get out of said friend zone. It’s important to cover the basics more than the subtle parts, since a majority reading this are probably very highly intelligent and part of intelligence is solving the problem yourself, this will help you in the future by understanding your own life experiences and sorting them as you are apt to.

The Gen Z Stare

This is something I noticed as I walk around to get whatever provisions I may need, and by that I mean booze. Lot of booze! Ok, maybe not that much but it sounds a lot better than going out for a fuckin hamburger, of which I desire to be double and with fries. A side…uh, aside, this isn’t the first time I have seen this problem arise. The first time I was 19 back in 2005. I noticed a male and female in their 30s, attempt to engage one another but it seemed awkward. I didn’t really think much of it until I noticed Gen Z doing this too! Well, to my luck, a Gen z girls TikTok randomly appeared in my feed once, confirming what I suspected was a bad attempt at flirting. See, men and women are similar creatures but do things drastically different and for different reasons. This comes from both not understanding how the opposite side works. See, looking a woman in the eyes for a man is a good thing. If you’re going to check them out, do so from a distance, but once they are within 6 feet of you, you know Covid distance, you can’t check their tits out anymore. You got to square up and look them in the eye. That said, while women appreciate that, they also seem to think that is flirting. It isn’t. Flirting takes a lot more than just the confidence to look someone in the eyes and talk to them. You need your basic pleasantries too, but while a woman may see that as more, a man is going to become confused.

It gets worse from here with other things I have observed from young gen z girls that confuses me when I observe them out and about. That’s one of the reasons I am writing this, it’s downright frightening to think some of this innocent behavior could have disastrous consequences for them, from narrasitics idiots and sociopaths. While I do not have children, it’s still frightening to think about the idea of a daughter of my own having such negative things come upon her.

I assume some of their malign ideas come from seeing idiots my age in their 20s as it certainly didn’t come from Gen X, as that’s not how they operated in the 90s and 00s for the most part. I feel like Madmen might also be partially to blame here. Jon Hamm might be a great actor, but Don Draper is no alpha male. The 60s only worked because it was so outlandishly toxic that people just delt with other wise douche bag behavior. This wouldn’t have flown back in my day as we have this thing called sexual harassment policies in work and school. One such behavior I observed, was something I first saw as a teenager back in 2000. It was ass slapping behavior. This stuff should never be done outside a bedroom. The right guy will see it as a shit test and avoid it, the wrong guys will probably do worse. Thankfully it’s not at pandemic levels, but as I said, what if it was my own daughter inviting toxic behavior? Obviously something needs to be said. Thankfully most of the Gen Z guys seem to be on the level and not being uncouth. If I had a daughter I wouldn’t be mad if she brought a gen z guy home.

ONLINE DATING: I’ve checked out some of the Gen-Z social media and if you’re looking for a partner, forget it. These sites don’t seem to have anything of value to sell you, even now. These sites and old ones like OKCupid are trash and offer Millennial style “personalities” at a fraction of the age the echo boomers are. Probably best to be avoided as much as possible.

COMPLIMENTS

Ok, so another observation I’ve noticed, although not as horrible as the above that could really get you into a horrible time, is compliments. I known by now that woman thrive on compliments. One of my suspicions on what fuels engagement on social media. The more feminine the individual, man or woman is perceived, the more likes and retweets they are apt to get. That said, the real world doesn’t work like social media, thankfully for us. However, this is a good way to see if the individual you’re dealing with, may or may not be narcissistic. I’ve noticed some individuals, if not having their compliments reciprocated, will take it overly personally. Pre-crime Vol 2 will have the answer as to why that is, but that’s not important here.

I understand that some people need compliments, however one needs to be selective in how they give them. I’ve seen people incidentally love bombed into a frenzy over an innocent compliment. Not something you would want to court.

For the woman, the more feminine the male in his youth, the better he will probably understand you. However the more masculine ones won’t get it.

FLIRTING

Now that we got that out of the way, we can deal strictly with flirting.

I’m not the king of the flirt, it’s not a masculine trait. However, it easy to pick up on from most people. It’s never cocky to think someone could be flirting with you, if you’re a guy, but you need to know the difference between her being nice and her hitting on you.

Smiles are great, they could be an in. However, that’s not a great way to jump into the sac, you got to slowly tear back the wrapper, so to speak and get more details on such.

If a woman smiles and keeps walking, just let it go. If they were interested in a conversation they would have stopped. Like the TLC song says “Don’t go chasing waterfalls, stick to the rivers and the lakes that you’re used to.”

Assertion vs non assertion is the next part of this point. It’s not assertive to incidentally detain someone to turn it into a win. It is assertive to be able to parlay a natural conversation from friendly to more.

Remember, assertion is when you have the right. Being a dickhead is when you don’t have the right. In other words, being a male Karen is the latter, not the former. Look at Boomers and Millennials, they think they’re assertive when they’re not. This is why millennials are part of the most arrested generation of all, cause they’re toxic or hostile in most engagements. Do the exact opposite of everything they do, cause almost none of them know how to actually engage a human correctly to make connections that are lasting. They are really good at making it look otherwise though.

For woman, you got to do more than the Gen Z stare. Take a hint from that 80s movie, Ferris Bhuler’s day off. He talks about playful hits, sometimes called “love taps” as a way of showing interest. I’ve seen that work occasionally. Innocent touch to a guy can prime a man towards smaller reciprocal touches, like hand holding. This does give you an invite into base running as the old cliche goes.

DATING:

Now we’re going to see why I call this “unqualified” dating advice. The last time I went on a date, I was 12 and it was with my “girlfriend” at the time. It was such a horrible thing that I’m still single going into my 40s, because I’m happier that way. However, I have been able to get laid enough without dating. We however are not going to focus on getting laid with this, rather look at dating rationally.

The main point of a date is basically to see how you and said individual square up, right? Why then, does dating always either end up in a boring business meeting at a restaurant or one that’s too fun and doesn’t test your potential mettle as a couple? Traditional dating, for lack of a better term, sucks. Not to quote Gordon Gekko, the Wall Street character, not the 90s PlayStation character.

If you’re looking for a partner, the ballet or a play, your typical restaurant, probably not the best choice. Ice skating could be a good choice, you’ll really find out their character.

Basically what I’m trying to say, is that you need an environment that allows you to sync up and get on the same page, but still has enough of a challenge to see how you would engage as a couple.

OLDER DATING: I’ve slept with older woman and in some cases it was better sex than I ever had with millennials, baring one. Listen to my first podcast on one night in 2013 with a millennial to know what I’m talking about. Most your peers seems decent, don’t waste it on woman that bitter, angry, dried up Karens. Same for the woman in Gen-Z. However I won’t fault you if you choose to do so. Your body, your choice.

MARRIAGE: To quote Ozzy Ozzborne “Don’t ask me, I don’t know!” Never been married, don’t see the value in it.

Marriage is more a temporary contract for having kids than a NPD level of delusion that this is your forever mate, that it has become. Who knows, maybe they actually are, but is it right to force such a burden on it? Think of your friendships, did you enter into saying “we’re going to be friends 100 years from now?” The answer was probably no. So why do that with marriage?

The way I see it, you get married for the sake of having a family, keep it to a manageable 18 years. After that, you’re both free to go, or you can renew your love and stay married. So much easier than having your marriage be the equivalent of that Kiss song, forever.

Personal opinion, but I think moving away from the traditional marriage set up, could reinvigorate it and create a stronger, lasting set up. think of the bullshit with in-laws and holidays with travel, ect. Don’t forget money problems. So many things add stress that wears at the “love”. So maybe treating it as you would during divorce, where you just co-parent would be most beneficial to you and your spouse.

Remember, I’ve never been married so take this how you will.

KIDS: ok, now I’m highly unqualified here. You’re on your own. I would say this, in order to love your children fully, you must be able to love your partner, quirks and all, because kids are a blend of both of you. If you hate it in your spouse, you’ll hate it in the child. Also, don’t parent like an idiot boomer or millennial and you’ll probably be fine. Good luck!

CONCLUSION: I went over as many relevant things as I could think of. I left some more “advanced” stuff out because it requires me to understand your specific situations. However, given the fact the advice is free, well, you get what you pay for. This is stuff I’ve observed in others and or, delt with in my past. I really don’t know if it will apply to you or not, but at least you got it for free. In the future, I may need to extrapolate to this, but it seems to be fine. If you have any questions, feel free to ask your parents. If this works for you, consider sending me bitcoin. Peace!

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New Years Kage: 2024

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Damn! What a weird and interesting year it has been. It started off slow and ended with the death of a CEO by a dude whose name is similar to a Nintendo character. to be fair, most of 2024 was still predictable as most other years, but the things it’s notable for, Woha!

However we need to unpack the Lugi case. I’ve been paying attention and think the hoopla around this is preposterously dull. This man is no hero for what he did. I understand why people think he is a hero, however he isn’t.

I have very little patience for criminal activity. I wanted to make detective when the was a child, so this shouldn’t come as a surprise to anyone. Obviously I never became a cop, but I’m still very much against bullshit, as evidence by past writings.

The reason so many people are cheering this guy is because it seems like an act of self defense because a rich and successful person killed another rich and successful persons, but here in lies the problem. They were both extremely well off, so why was the motive a lack of health care access for his back problems? he could have easily paid for all his healthcare. He was an Ivy league graduate for fuck sakes!

The media around this isn’t helping and on top of that, he seems to be being treated with kid gloves by even the justice system. I reiterate that this man is no hero, but the common trash people act as if he is. Why? Because they’re sympathetic? My grandmother died of breast cancer in the 90’s. She was diagnosed when I was 3, in 1989 and suffered from it up til I was 11 years old. A child’s mind sees that amount of years as very slow. So for 8 years, all I saw was her suffering.

What did the government do? Nothing! She worked until she was psychically unable to and couldn’t get he SS disability benefits. Did I kill anyone over it? No! So while I can be sympathetic to what people are going through, I don’t care and don’t want to see common trash people cheering this dumb mother fucker. With luck, a gangbanger will shank him in the shower. And everyone who cheers this dumb shit will, hopefully, die a horrible death as well.

Happy 2025!

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Kagemas: Squier Debut Stratocaster

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So I wanted to do something radically different this year than I have done in other years. I’m 1.4 years away from turning forty and so I’m going to make the most of my midlife crisis. Which, technically, thanks to millennials dropping the life expectancy back to being 70 something, happened in 2021, when I turned 35. So I did a thing, thanks to accidentally finding this social media thing called “Neighborhood” and it’s ment to be local to your area. I hopped on that and created a musician group. 4 of us are looking to get together and jam. So I might have accidentally started a band. So far, my middle age life has been the most stereotypical I’ve ever been in my life. Just need a mustang now and I’m all set.

So since I may have accidentally started a band, I figured I would go out and buy a new guitar for the occasion and decide which one is right for what we’re going for. $100 bucks shipped was nothing to sneeze at. Yeah, people downgrade the Squier, it’s not a real Strat, they say, While I never had the ultimate Strat I always wanted, which is to say the Jimi Hendrix Woodstock era Strat, I’ve heard enough players play them and think that a Squier is still a pretty good value.

First thing, out of the box, this thing looks primo. I got the matte black and white pick guard, because Jimi Hendrix apparently thought they photographed better and they were alleged to be his personal favorite Strats.

Tuned it up and plugged it into a mini Marshall travel amp.

NECK: no frets sticking out, beautiful bare wood c neck profile. I could move my hand freely. The tuners aren’t horrible, but the tuning did take a bit, given I kept seemingly under tuning or over turning. Not that big of a deal. There was no bowing and everything else seemed fine. Intonation seems fine.

BODY: Fine! Not a single dent or scratching on it. Very well built.

SINGLE COILS: Ceramic style, as they call them. All worked. Unlike the Squier affinity I got for free, where the bridge pick up was the weakest, the opposite seems true of this one, it’s almost like it is made for lead guitar playing.

WHAMMY: This is where my criticism comes in. I got a Squier affinity for free. Sadly it was because the player in question had died. His daughter came across my father and literally just gave him close to 1k dollars in equipment. I had to go out and get a whammy for it and the bridge broke. So I have to replace it, hence I bought a whole new guitar instead, and will fix that bridge later. While the whammy worked and sounded great on that guitar before it broke, the new one whammy is kinda underwhelming. Maybe it needs to settle in more. I’ve only had it for under a month, so time will tell on that one.

OVERALL: This is a great product and think something can be had by beginners and new players alike. I like this is a smaller neck, makes my barre chords better. I have not undone my pick garud, however, videos show it’s routed for either humbucklers or single coils, cause Squier knows you’re probably going to mod it. Squier did such a great job that I’m thinking of picking up the 60s vibe Strat next. It’s a toss up between that and an Ibanez Gio. If you’re looking for a cheap, but well crafted guitar that not gonna break the bank for practice or giving this as a gift, I think you’ll be happy. Also comes with a free subscription to Fender which is quite the amazing tool for a beginner.

4 out of 5 stars.

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Kagegiving: A Time For Healing

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So I’m canceling Kagegiving this year, since we’re in a very fucked up time frame.

If you have paid any attention to my page for very long, you know that I’m not a team player when it comes to politics or a lot of other things. There is no incentive for me to be, as I don’t like to live in echo chambers and unlike most people who use the social media, I don’t need the RT, Heart, Like on my stuff to keep me going. I go in spite of all that, since thinking for myself is a need, vs the need to be liked by most others.

I haven’t voted since 2016 and I’m actually far happier sitting out. I don’t know why I didn’t do so sooner. I think back on all that time wasted between 2004-2016 from my 1st vote of John Kerry, to my last vote, Hillary Clinton.

While I don’t vote anymore, it hasn’t stopped me from being informed, which is ultimately more important and while I do err more towards the conservative side, I recognize that both teams have their head up their ass and pretty much have since I was born.

So even though I’m convinced that Kamala was the worse possible candidate of the two, Trump doesn’t make me more excited either. Hopefully this will be the year towards mending the divide in the country and working to reestablish a balance between the horrible two party system.

For this year, instead of sitting on the internet, binge reading or watching stuff that unimportant to your life, be thankful for your family, friends, pets and other loved ones.

Happy Thanksgiving!

-Kage

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Guitarist Retrospective: 1998-2024

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So I’ve mentioned before that I got my 1st guitar at 12 years old in 1998. It was a Christmas gift and fantastic! Interestingly enough, my parents accidentally bought me a left handed guitar, not a right handed one. Since Jimi Hendrix was the biggest reason for learning, that didn’t deter me from trying to learn.

I ended up selling that guitar when we moved to New Hampshire, which is interesting, because it was originally purchased in New Hampshire. The internet was still in its infancy and there was no good resources around to learn anyway. Not like I could have started a band, as I come across so few people in my age range that know how to play any instrument, never mind the typical metal quartet of Drummer, Bassist, Rhythm Guitarist/Lead Guitarist.

Fast forward to 2004, I bought a nice guitar off eBay for about $80 dollars shipped. It was pink and goth style, but it looked so killer. I got to play around with some things here and there, like a wash pedal for the first time. I got tired of just being able to emulate certain things I had seen Rock Stars do, but not really understanding what I was doing. I wanted to really be a musician and not a hack that could chug and play the odd one finger power chords.

So I sold that guitar and picked up a $60 dollar acoustic guitar at the pawn shop and said “I’m becoming a musician”. 2008 would be a year that would drastically change my life for the better.

From 22 to 25 I played that thing non stop. Morning, noon, night. I didn’t care, I spent at least one hour a day learning.

Then like most people I hit the learning plateau that stops progress. So I took a short break from playing, so I could access the problem and find a way back to getting better.

Back then, you didn’t have all the fancy YouTuber’s you had now. You had Justinguitar.com and Marty had only just Started his YT channel. Basically you’re alone on this journey and for me, I would not have had it any other way. I mean, did Jimi have it easy? No, so why should I? I may not become a rock god, but I would become a musician. The latter is the most important part.

So the reason I write this is because I got offered a job interview at guitar center to teach guitar in Portland. I was the only one who applied, but due to conflicts with scheduling of bus routes, could not make it. Let’s be honest, it was a welfare gig from the start as most people learn online.

Hell, when I first started at 12, finding anyone to teach you was a pain in the ass, prior to the internet. My dad managed a band, locally and I could have asked there, but I didn’t want someone to take time to teach me, when it could service them better to make music. Regardless, like I posted above, I preferred the harder route, like many successful guitarist before me had walked.

So you know I would have probably been fired from Guitar Center before Christmas even showed up, unless they needed one more sales man, which I doubt. This isn’t to knock Guitar Center, rather understand the current climate we’re in and that local teaching isn’t exactly appropriate nowadays, since, as I said everything is driven by the internet.

Let look at the whose who of online guitarist

Justin Sandercroe

Marty Swartz

Music is win

Brandon

Rick Beato

And about a million in between all of those. The smart idea would be to build a curriculum on those people and branching out into certification for people who have passed their prerequisites in order to accommodate for people who cannot have access to these people personally like when they first started there channels as the volume, no pun intended, is probably a logistical nightmare.

My style for videos is very concise, too concise I would argue, as my entire series would probably only have about 10 videos total.

However, there is a list of things I noticed over the years that I wish I had known when I started playing in the first place.

  1. Anchor fingers is something I wish I had in the 90s. I might have become a decent player sooner. Look at Justinguitar for more one that. My favorite take away from his lessons.
  2. Music Theory. I never liked the name, as I’m a science guy and was an idiot who was like “if there is evidence for it, then it’s a theory.” As it seemed like the name was used informally. Since the guitar is over a century old, it should be music pragmatism. However, some understanding would be helpful. It helps creativity and doesn’t dash it.
  3. Finding a way to make analogies to the notes on your fretboard. This is a must in the beginning!
  4. Knowing what notes make up a chord. It be simpler to make chords on the fly than rote remembering them all. Also Don’t get bogged down in BS like the caged system.
  5. Tabs suck! If they work for you, all the power to ya. Learning by ear has been so much more beneficial to me than tabs ever have been. I only feel like my ear has recently become well developed and needs to be more attenuated . I have started, recently, learning Hendrix by ear and have made real progress. Something I would not have dared do in the early days of guitar playing.

That’s a small but very important list.

So, here is my structure for learning guitar since 2008.

Kirk Hammett

David Gilmore

Slash

Jimi Hendrix

The idea was to start at Metallica and learn what we could from Kirk. In this case, light solos, a decent pace to strive for and really good for developing your ear. I learned more Metallica accidentally than I ever did intentionally.

David Gilmore is the next logical step. Very long solos, use of whammy, learning when to slow down and when to speed up.

Slash is up next, as he is undoubtedly the hardest to play on this list, before Jimi. Dexterity and speed are very important here.

Once you learn from them, we would approach Jimi Hendrix, the man himself and this would be close to a Ph.D in music in my mind, for those learning on the outside of a musical theory course.

The point isn’t to be able to play all their songs perfectly, but rather develop the muscle memory to be able to play better. You can replace any guitarist on the list with your personal preference for players.

I’ll leave it here for now. Good luck with your own musical progress. Rock on!

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Why YouTube Psychologist Should be Disbarred from the APA

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I know that’s a bold claim to make, but hear me out on this one. So, since I have very electric taste in what I follow for various reasons, sometimes a bunch of similar things will get caught in my feed at the same time and for different reasons. So a lot of “how to defeat a narcissist” clips have been showing up in my feed and they’re disingenuous for a lot of reasons. As someone who has tried a lot of these tactics with people that might have NPD, I have noticed they never work and also always exacerbate the problem. I’m not sure if it’s because the tactics are outdated or because these idiots are wising up the narc to go beyond we’re they used or, or what.

One case in point was when I was 22 ish and a woman who I bearly knew, was on the verge of a divorce, wanted to get to know me and none of these things seemed to get her away from me. She just kept at it. I knew back then it was an obvious red flag when she ask me to tell her I loved her when I had barely known her. I was also talking to another woman I was interested in at the time and wanted to see where that went, since she wanted to wait until the divorce was finalized before proceeding with fully putting out. She was open to light “cheating” though.

So naturally I looked some stuff up to see various ways I could broach the subject, since my gestures weren’t deterring her from badgering me.

Having tried all these things they put into the videos, I find they’re a boon. So my logic is, if you suck at your job that badly, should you really still get to have it? I mean these are people that are giving people sound advice, by their standards, claiming they’re degreed in this and if you had paid for the advice, you would have a malpractice suit against them. So what gives that these continue to go unchecked and the American Psychiatric Association hasn’t put them out to pasture yet? Cause if you have ever tried any of this, you know by now they’re making large sums of money off you continually losing to the potential NPDer. So where is the gain for anyone to actually win? Cause much like the narc, you have to go back to these people and they get their not toxic supply. It’s like the circle of violence for domestic abuse.

Maybe you have had a different experience here, but from my point of view, it seems like the real narcs are in these videos.