I know I’ll catch a bit of shit for this, but I have a valid reason for it.
You won’t always find your partner attractive and that’s normal and natural. It’s how you engage and act after thinking that, that really matters and here is why.
So, we’re evolutionary prone to stay away from things that hurt us. Disease, being one of the major things. You’re learned from Covid that quarantines sometimes work. We learned this in childhood when our parents had us stay in our bedrooms to prevent other family members from getting sick.
What’s one way our parents or friends noticed. “You don’t look so good” is normally what is said, or something similar to this.
So even though your partner isn’t Family by blood, unless you’re from Kentucky, they’re still a loved one. Especially when you have kids involved.
So it’s more than permissible to find your partner to be unattractive from time to time. Especially when they’re sick. It’s a natural trait of human empathy to want to see the sick in an unflattering light, ironic though it may be.
Think of the novel Lolita. Humbert makes poor Delores put out, even when she’s sick. A human being cares for their partner and puts them first. They’re more than just a vagina or dick.
Thinking your partner to be unattractive actually presents you in a flattering way, instead of narrasstic. however, like above, tactful presentation is key.
Think of the 2008 campaign trail where John McCain got shit on for leaving his first wife with cancer and rightfully so. That’s a rather poor way of going about it. I know it’s easy for me to say, given the whole I’ve been single for years, however being a serial monogamist gives you no more special knowledge than a dude that set out being a CAD.
However, much like your partner and you, this is not about one single individual, rather it’s about the idea behind being selfless in selfishness. Oxymoronically though it may be, there can be far less conceit in selfishness than selflessness.
I’ve pointed out before that a child between two people act as a blood bond, a sacrament and as such, makes your partner equal to family.
However, since you’re not genuinely blood, there isn’t the same need to stay with said partner in today’s day and age. However, you both develop independent needs to protect said child or children. That’s a selfish concept. You give your kids what you can, because it pleases you, the individual to give to them. Like with all things in life, context is key to understanding.
This brings me back to the topic at hand, which is to say that finding your partner unattractive may seem selfish in the sense people try to tie the word to anything negative, however, wouldn’t you be better off acknowledging that feeling instead of being insecure that it makes you seem negative? What’s more selfish in that regard?
I’m against morality as a concept, because I see it as childish. However, I do believe in right from wrong and that we have 4 biological imperatives. The 4th is the most no shit Sherlock thing ever, I almost never include it and leave it to the three major ones. Don’t rape, don’t steal, don’t kill and the 4th is don’t incest.
Finding your partner ugly doesn’t count as one of the major four, so it’s regaled to basic right from wrong. It’s never wrong to think things through. Bad thoughts are not tantamount to bad actions.
It’s good to have a fantasy outside of your partner for instance. Porn is good for giving you an ethical “cheat card” to think of someone that isn’t your partner as an option. cheating would be the worse option.
Thinking your partner unattractive is the same as the above.
Remember, sometimes love requires asymmetrical trains of thought. It’s not criminal to find your wife or girlfriend unattractive from time to time, it is however horrible to dump them for not living up to a bullshit standard you can’t even live up to 24 hours a day.
So disc one is all stereo versions of Jimi’s songs. That’s great if you’re into it. Personally I prefer listening in the original mono versions. How there isn’t anything inherently wrong with these versions either. It’s just one more way to enjoy Jimi Hendrix and to rediscover some great music in different way.
DISC TWO
Classic Jimi Hendrix mode and nothing you need to to review with more depth. The music speaks for itself and that is the shining point of any album.
DISK THREE
Some new and interesting. Experimental guitar track being my favorite and the most interesting, especially given the Hendrix learning I’ve been doing. Sounds like it’s possibly the uni vibe giving this song its unique flavor. The 69 vibe emulates this well.
A whole lot of different takes. Love it!
DISC FOUR
The live versions of past works is where it’s at here and the different styles. Foxy Lady is a heavy as it’s ever been.
CONCLUSION:
Jimi Hendrix is Jimi Hendrix and you can’t really spell it out better than that. Unlike the previous release that was mostly alternate takes, this blend’s reinvention for a modern era with the past, as well as some new goodies to discover. That’s a really fantastic deal for a remake of a 50 year old album.
So is this something to be thankful for? Hell yeah!
So, when I was a child, in elementary school, my gym teacher decided she needed to enact her facism tendencies on the whole of the 5th grade class with an atrocious Christmas play. She was never overly fond of me and unlucky for her, I ended up with the student of the month write up from it.
However, I done acting very few times in my life, I’ve come to appreciate some things about acting that I couldn’t really appreciate in my youth and that is a form of method acting, albeit slightly lesser in scale because I don’t go about getting acting gigs or forcing your fellow thespians to only refer to said person as said character to their utter annoyance.
So it started in 2008, when I was looking for ways to get deeper into the headspace of things I didn’t particularly understand, specifically crime. This was to help with cultivating my “book”, Pre-Crime. However, I used it to help create characters in my novel ideas, or screenplays. Whatever I was writing at the time. I then turned to using it to get better at guitar and I find it works very well.
So what I normally do is I will shave my beard or facial hair similar to the artist in question if they have any.
Jimi Hendrix style mustache
Next thing I do is go to Amazon and look at clothing styles similar to the ones said artists have and cultivate a look that is closer to them in the time frame and then try to modernize it, as if they were walking around today, assuming they’re still alive or not.
I go back to Amazon as often as I need to in order to get my minds eye in direction of the “character” so to speak.
This is a new touch, but I used to photoshop if need be, however thanks to the AI I can create images that help me better interpret the artist in question.
I listen to their music as much as possible and attempt to get into that headspace. I may try and create similar riffs or something as well, in order to get a deeper understanding.
I try to visualize how a movie or biopic could look, starting said individual musician. This helps to get a better feel for how said person is interpreted via different mediums like interviews.
I may buy myself a new guitar that is similar to said individual, because sometimes having said style guitar can help you facilitate a deeper connection to the musicians you like.
If you can get pedals to work on a tone, that is helpful too.
You don’t have to restrict yourself to just people that play your instrument. I improved my bass line playing on guitar by doing that same with Lemmy as I did with Hendrix.
I’ve done this about 4 or so times over the years and I personally think it helps.
At worst, it’s a fun waste of time, trying to better put yourself into the shoes of another human that’s deeper than just understanding where they’re coming from. It’s black like me, that documentary from the 1970s but without the benefit of it helping others integrate into society.
If anyone decides to try this, let me know if it works for you.
Nothing is worse than an imbecile that thinks they know things when they don’t. I never profess to know everything, unless I’m dealing with pukes like this and then I love quoting Issac Asimov with “people who think they know everything are a burden to those of us who do.” And to borrow from Carlin, “it’s not a pet peeve, it’s a major psychotic fuckin hatred.”
It doesn’t get any worse than when it comes to love though. Oh you know the type, they check into relationship after relationship and fail miserably, but they know what real love is. Do you though?
Love isn’t sexual, nor is purely platonic. Love can be graduated on a scale and viewed a great many ways. However, if love is one thing, it’s not about drama, but rather what we might consider to be sacrificing. Now I abore sacrificing, it’s not needed to make a point, and assholes who act like they did something major when they didn’t are equally as fuckin obnoxious as the pissant that thinks they’re experts in everything. Take the assholes in professional wrestling for example, like The Rock, Mr. Two bucks in my pocket and made myself a star. Ugh! 🙄 Wow, good for you. You did what a great many people have done historically in the real world, but for fame. Ain’t you a special little fucker, eh? I digress again.
So back to love, and what most people consider sacrifice, but when you really care about the person, it just comes naturally. I don’t feel like I deserve a gold star for any of this, because I wasn’t in it for that.
So I’ve mentioned before I had only the one girlfriend when I was 12. That’s true. I can assure you, there was no love there. However, the story I never told, but only had snippets of, was my bestie and I.
So it’s November 2007. The 24th to be exact. A few months earlier I found myself in a MySpace chat and met some interesting people. A few of which I’m still friends with. However, the one I spent the most time with, was my bestie. Now she was mostly typical of an average millennial with a few differences. One of which is somehow we managed to coexist in the same space and not want to kill each other, as happens with so many of these other douchebags. This alone intrigued me enough to let her come see me that Thanksgiving. Meeting someone from the internet was something I had only done once before and it was two men to play cards over at the game shop.
Picture I drew of her and what she was wearing when we first met.
Now, somewhere along the line, we went from that one meting, to talking enough online, to spending 90% of 2011 and beyond as much as possible. I was there for nearly every waking, post high school moment. The ups and downs, ebbs and flows of just friendship.
I mean, we ran the gamut of shit. Everything from her crying under a table about her future ex, to her getting mad at me for stupid shit. I mean, I even changed my bedsheets and pillows to her personal preference because she used my bed more than I did for like 4 years, while I often slept on couch. On a couple of occasions, she took the couch and let me have the bed, which was nice of her to let me have my own bed back. lol
The bed sheets and pillows in question
There’s the time I only had only one blanket and she got it, while the rements of alcohol and a jacket on top of me was what I had to stay warm.
Me intentionally getting the red neck name tattoo on my chest for her birthday.
Red neck tattoo 🤘
Playing the blues together where we switched roles and she played guitar, while I “sang”. Normally she played piano, but she knew some guitar from her dad. It was fun!
Oh that time we bbq’d and later got shit faced and I played guitar and boy did I think I was playing well. lol
The time I went out in the middle of a rain storm to find a copy of DOA 4, so we could play together.
Or the time we got her a tattoo. How about this time she got injured and I made this for her
The time I was sobering up and she made me a coffee, which before hand, nither one of us drank, but in 2011 I started to, and if she hadn’t of used fake sugar, would have probably made me diabetic. I drank every sip out of appreciation. Whislt she tried to explain to me why people like to watch the Kardashians and Jersey Shore.
I learned something more and more every time we spent time together. She left a major mark on me and god are we two vastly different people. No could ever figure out how two people, with such vastly different world views, could make a friendship work. I’d say the same thing then as I would say now, we just love each other. That’s more than enough to keep a friendship going. Wanting to see her achieve her best and go as far as she could. Life seemed like the grinch with all that happened, but he didn’t stop Christmas from coming. It came all the same. It came with no presents, it came without bags, it came in spite of stupid hags.
This, even if it isn’t romantic love, is how you should be looking to establish a relationship of any kind. Caring, compassionate, endearing and filled with zany fun.
One caveat here, I don’t think I could ever do anything like this ever again. I put a hell of a lot into this.
Remember when I said “you don’t start friendships with a contract, so why would you do the same for something as meaningful as love?” When it came to the Gen-Z dating guide. This is that! We didn’t say, hey let’s be here for X amount of time or whatever. It’s just, hey we’re besties. Started with some Tenacious D and the presto, in 2027 we’re celebrating 20 years of friendship. It went by way too fast!
I’m very proud of my best friend and all she accomplished and been through since we met and now, she started her best part yet, motherhood. Something she’s wanted to be since we met and it didn’t happen til now. it was worth every moment I spent, no matter how taxing or difficult some things became. I hope this is her best chapter yet and I’ll be around to see it.
We have a lot of songs we share together and in jokes as well. Here’s one that I’ll let you in on, for every Christmas, then, now and forever.
So right now the Supreme Court is hearing an argument of if marijaunna users can legally own guns. The short answer is yes, but the long answer is slightly more complicated.
Most people make the bank argument that drinkers can own Guns, so why not pot heads? The agree, but that’s not what we’re looking at. What we should be looking at is the laws that call out pot in the first place. As a guy who has bought guns, one of the questions asked if “do you use marijaunna illegally” which should not even be asked for two reasons. First, government is denying you your right to the 5th amendment in an attempt to violate your second. it also violates the 4th admendment as well.
So the problem was never what type of drug you ingest, rather the criminal background to begin with and the government infringing on your rights.
I would argue that anyone that doesn’t have a criminal charge and has bought a gun with a background check is entitled by the second admendment to process said fire arm. The problem here though, is that if you get busted after the fact, you’re gonna catch an extra charge
Given the current change in demeanor towards weed, you have to keep in mind the 10th admendment as well. Which states, anything not laid out by the constitution, is up to the states and the people to decide.
So I believe it would be erroneous on the court to not decide yes in the case of Ali Danial Hemani.
NPD, narcissistic personality disorder comes in a variety of flavors. However, your basic bitch version comes from the parable of Narrcisius, the Ancient Greek dude that loved his reflection so much, he drown in the river Styx. Never mind that Styx was supposed to be a shallow river, so he was stupid too. I digress, though.
So, ironically, NPD has to affect the narc the most in order for it to be a personality disorder. it’s an internal need that the narc has to placate in order to be whole that’s adjacent to normal drive. So for instance, you need to adult, pay your bills, ect. Friction that keeps you from achieving these goals can be stressful, however, it’s not NPD because life makes that a necessity. However, being famous for instance isn’t a need, thus it’s NPD.
Another instance, especially the in a looks driven Millennial world, and you can’t really blame them given most, including the celebrities are fuck ugly. However, if you’re trying to date exclusively to attractive men or woman and that causes you friction, then you’re NPD.
you’re lucky enough to be Channing Tatum good looking, and not dating attractive cause you friction, then you’re NPD.
In other words, it’s the ok to not fuck ugly people and doesn’t make you NPD for saying no.
Another Millennial NPD factor is their unnecessary need to fit in and buy the right clothes or other bullshit branded thing to be liked. That’s NPD because it’s causing you unnecessary friction in your life.
If someone doesn’t like you for you, that’s their loss and if the autism brigade like Boomers and Millennials hate you for it, that’s them being malignant narcissists. No one has a right to cause you problems over something as dumb as clothing or a cup of coffee. Shun those people, you’ll be better off.
A good exception to the rule of the above is summed up here. The 3rd Die Hard
John McClane with I hate N**ers. Of course people will be upset, come on, that’s common sense.
Obviously the above will piss people off. However, within the movie’s context, McClane would have been more NPD had he not done as such, because he would have had the deaths of people on his conscious.
Need to always give your opinion to people? You’re NPD. Random strangers do not have to value you or your opinion and that doesn’t make that person a narc for not valuing you one way or the other. Your reaction, in the negative to someone not having much thought you one way or the other does.
The Narc often lacks self reflection, thus it’s hard to change, because doing so would require a deep delve into themselves and looking bad isn’t in their psyche. No, they’re good people, it’s you who are wrong.
What millennials seem to do is what is historically referred to as “marking” a pro wrestling term that used to be used by con men. You would treat the mark in question how they were dressed and attempt to dupe them out of whatever you thought you could get. So going out in $1000 dollar Armani suit, they would expect to be ass kissed by everyone as if they were a celebrity. That’s NPD makes you a narc. Most normal people would treat you accordingly to actions and not clothing.
Words aren’t necessarily NPD, it’s dependent on the overall context of the event. Ted Budy took personal responsibility for his crimes when it was too late and said pornography made him do it. Hate to break it to you, but that’s still a narc thing, because had there been real remorse, he would’ve stopped at one and turned himself in.
Words oftten associated with NPD, as catch all to shortcut explanations, because reading and thinking is too difficult, make for a warm security blanket and a sumg sense of superiority, but none of it is accurate. Hey, those internet gurus with their worthless degrees have to make money somehow, so they throw stupid phrases that a person with NPD could have said, that are not really things related to narcs because they tend to be narcs themselves and need the attention from you worshipping them on the internet.
Quick aside, As a general rule, if the talking head on YouTube seems like a boomer or millennial, they’re probably NPD, ignore them.
Since only the narcissist knows they’re a narcissist for sure, most of these people giving you the advice have their heads up their ass to keep getting your engagement for money.
Like I’ve mentioned before, if you paid for this, you’d have a malpractice suit on your hand. That was mostly about the phonies online that exist just to cause friction.
Here’s a sure fire way to spot a narcissist. Intersectionality with you, in a harmful manner. We’re talking about actual harm, not made up bullshit. So let’s use an actual example of this from my personal life.
When I was 16, I lived in a certain area where I met a 18 year old man and a 25 year old man online and we played cards. A game known as WWF Raw Deal.
The 18 year old was the one we are focused on, because he’s the one in question that caused a ruckus for his need for attention.
Anyways, the 25 year old and I were only friends with him because we felt bad, because no one liked him. He was a textbook millennial. Thought his opinion always mattered, constantly having arguments with people over petty stuff. He, like most millennials, suck at being normal. The average millennial is NPD at minimum, and outright sociopaths in others. NPD would just be an improvement, over the later.
So the 25 year old and I thought we could help him and have him having a better life than he did and boy were we both wrong. Those two ended up breaking up with each other over the 25 year olds, uh, romantic interest let me say and how the 18 year old thought she was ugly. Not the underling fact she was 16 herself when they met.
Hell, knowing these two caused all three of us friction in our lives and was quite possibly one of the dumbest things I ever did in my life. They once had admin privileges on a site called Team Canada Online. A moderately decent Raw Deal/Pro Wrestling forum.
So this prick called AmericanNightmare76 had issues with the three of us spending time together. However it wasn’t because they were hanging out with a 16 year old, rather his own jealousy, since he literally IP banned the entire town over it. So they ended up losing their admin privileges over that and I was banned and then I signed up again to be a righteous prick, because what type of toxic cocksucker takes it out on a whole town?
Never mind the fact that when I moved to Biddeford in 2004, and the owner of the card shop asked how we knew each, the then 27 year old JOKINGLY , told him we met in a juvenile detention center and we fell in love. Of which the store owner of said place then was more interested in why I was in allegedly in juvenile detention, when I wasn’t , over the whole nearly 30 year old man saying he Child molestied me.
Honestly it’s for the best all three of us stopped spending time together as it always resulted in negative bullshit.
Now, in this story we’re talking about the 18 old. He had this friend and the friend in question eventually became a full time WWE wrestler. He was released years ago and it didn’t last long as a stint.However, this has never stopped that former 18 year old, now 41-42ish, from running his trap about it, and with mentioning my name in the context, because I’ve had people who don’t know me, ask if the story was true, years after the fact.
Oddly enough a person with NPD would have run their cocksuckers about how they knew that person before they were famous.
However, if you can’t prove it, it’s irrelevant. For instance a friend of mine I’ve known since 2007 from a MySpace chat has done substantial on a certain social media platform, however, I don’t tend to run my cock sucker about it. I’m proud of him and glad he’s my friend, but what exactly am I hoping to get from such by telling you? The answer is nothing.
Now, I know you’re curious to know, the answer to who the wrestler was in question and if I knew them, and the answer is I won’t tell you, but it might have be them.
I wasn’t friends with the future wrestler in question, I just played Raw Deal against them, potentially and took second place in that respective tournament in 2003. Only Comic Images, the 25 year old and the game shop know for sure. Either way, I didn’t like him then and not a fan now, so it’s a moot point.
However, the former friend in question, was having actual intersectionality with my life by people asking me things that aren’t their business anyways, so he could he get whatever perceived value a mid carder would have. Fuck if I know what that would be.
The reasons we’re former friends is because , of all things, I refused to help him get over in the Indy wrestling of this state. He knew I knew wrestling well and wanted to capitalize on that. He wanted to be my manager, since that’s what he trained in. however I never wanted to be a performer. I can’t stand acting or entertaining people in general, it’s a waste of my time, talents and years of education to be regaled to the back of the bus like Rosa Parks.
Also, the whole aforementioned bullshit of every time the three of us are together, bad shit happens.
However, he got pissed at me. Some of the back and forth between us still exists on the internet, however I’m not going to share it out of the fact it’s still no one’s business and I don’t need him getting attention more than he has. Thankfully he deleted himself from my facebook and I have not seen him since 2013. The 25 year old ended up marrying the 16 year old in her 20s and had kids with her.
I need to make the point though and that is this being textbook NPD. He was driven by his need for stature at the expense of his friends, he caused negative consequences in the lives of people like myself and the former 25 year old.
There’s also the opposite of gaslighting he uses, which is the implementation of false memories esoterica that the internet doesn’t give.
Like he claimed the wrestler in question and I had a match together. A match that he knows never took place, because he autisticly needed a road story to be like “the boys” in the back. I know so, because that’s how he pitched it to me back in 2013/2014 or so, when we were at the 7-11.
The fact he claims the wrestler and I went to school together, which never happened, given the age range between him and I, is a 6 year difference,so he would have graduated long before I was a freshman, for the record I entered into high school in September of 2000.
He knows I’ve been courted for pro wrestling multiple times in my life and I declined each time. I have never stepped foot in a ring. The closest to wrestling I’ve ever gotten was horsing around with friends in childhood. I am, however a fan of wrestling and have historically enjoyed watching it.
So with that out of the way, what’s NPD about it?
So on the DSM spectrum this would type as
Need to associate with high profile people or institutions(Kage note, a wrestler being high profile in his mind. Lmfao!)
Delusions of grandeur, like his constant attempts at working only in Hollywood and his failed attempts over and over again.
Need for validation.
Those are 3 out of the 12 or so criteria. You only need 4 to be considered NPD by a professional. I’m not a professional, so I’m not diagnosing him, however I’m educated enough to spot the problem and have walked away from it.
That is real intersectionality with someone’s lives and multiple people’s to boot. Some narcissistic take faux intersectionality to a new level, just a person working the same job as them triggers them and they don’t want that person around. That’s not real intersectionality. It like saying you have an emotional support celebrity without that celebrity consent. It’s a falsehood and outright mental illness at that. Just existing isn’t a normal persons cause for concern. You have to be harming someone in reality, not just their perceived misgivings.
These are of the utmost importance in explaining now NPD really works. It not pointing out that people are overly sensitive, especially when they are, because most NPD people are overly sensitive themselves, so they’re just projecting themselves on you. Everything these videos tell you, are often just the narc projecting their bullshit onto you.
Now, When I started Bestinyourgirl.com, I had one rule that was the most important of them all, that was, unless necessary, all celebrities were persona non grata. Why? They’re worthless SEO, for one. Too many idiots abuse their names for that.
2nd, they completely irrelevant to a website that’s all about my writing. Some might say that makes me NPD. Does it? If I came into your place and put my feet up without permission or invitation to do so, am I not breaking and entering? Of corse I am, right? So naturally, we’re going to ignore them. Arrogance? Maybe, but what has a single celebrity done of any value in the last 20 years or so? Nothing! they have losers who circle jerk them and call themselves a fan base.
Pre-crime, without tooting my own horn too much, is probably the most brilliant thing anyone has ever come up with and yet, I’m supposed to pretend actors and the ilk are on this level? Lmfao! You pretend for a living and I get shit done for the sake of it. We are not the same.
People will say I’m jealous. Weird for a dude who never even tried his hand at any of it and rejected a majority of things I could have done in the field.
People will say I’m arrogant. Technically true, but merited. I’ve bested more people than most celebrities have fans for my Google rank.
People will say I’m petty and that’s your problem.
All things a narcissistic asshole would say. That’s you projecting on me.
What if I told you that pretending the audience matters is neither narcissistic nor selfless. What if I told you, that no matter how well an act of entertainment goes, I always feel dejected after. What’s more narcissistic? Continuing down that path or shunning it? my answer is continuing down that path is more NPD. Why? Because I’m causing myself friction internally. It doesn’t jibe with who I’m am in my youth and who I am as an adult.
Some might say I’m selfish, people need humor. Doesn’t the world need more doctors, police, firefighters, veterinary technicians though? Is it selfish that at 39 years old, I’ve spent the last 20 years of my life educating the world? Have I done light stuff like reviews, sure, but I’ve done some interesting and thoughtful pieces as well.
Why do I phrase such so arrogantly? For a reason, because not only is that entire statement true, not a single bit of it is NPD. It doesn’t met the criteria for it. Delusion? No, we’re past that stage as my system seems to be relevant. Special treatment seeking? No, because the algorithm I invented makes me meet the criteria for a deity. What’s that criteria? Omnipresent, omnipotent and Omniceinant. why is none of this NPD? Because it doesn’t meet the criteria of a personal plight internally and if it can be proven then my rhetoric is irrelevant.
Not writing for instance gives me more of a personal plight. Would that make me NPD? Absolutely! Ironic that not writing, something inherently not necessary would drive me batshit to not do. Yet the egregiously arrogant statement doesn’t.
Here’s a mild NPD test that you can use to see if your one. Which of these statements is true?
1.) I’m a good person if I stop someone from being a celebrity.
2.) I’m a bad person for not stopping someone from becoming famous?
Answer yes to one and you’re NPD. Why? What right did you have to Garudian another persons life? The answer is none. You had intersectionality in the negative way.
Walk by a narc and not give them preferential treatment, they will try to negatively impact your life. Why? Because they took it personally. Oh nooo! That makes me a narc according to internet videos. Why? Because of a phrase over context is more important to the butt hurt brigade than reason.
Not a single one of those last statements were flattering to me, yet, fuck you! Uh oh, I lacked empathy for the reader. Were you really hurt by that though? No? Didn’t think so. Yet I’m a narc for that too!
Pretty much every mental illness in the DSM is just NPD by different names. Nightmare disorder? That’s NPD in sleep. Why? Because it causes you the disorder. Social anxiety? That’s NPD over neurotic tendencies.
As I’ve pointed out in a video from my 20s about Autism “provided a doctor clears it, it’s ok to be an asshole.”-Kage
Damn it, there I go again, being a narc because I quoted my brilliance and was unsympathetic to a fictional desiese, that I don’t believe is caused by weird nutrition, I don’t believe it exists either.
It’s not the fact, that gaslighting, doesn’t exist. Only weak minded bafoons fall for that. It’s not flying monkeys bs or anything the internet has lead legions of idiots to accept and cause NPD witch hunts. It’s a lot more than videos let on.
Shit, even The Bible got it right by naming pride as a sin, because when it’s counter productive, like not taking personal responsibility for yourself , it’s NPD type of shit.
As a recap, words are irrelevant unless they can or cannot be proven. The narc needs to basically ruin their lives for it to even be NPD. Only they know for sure. Someone telling you you’re wrong isn’t gaslighting, thinking your friends are special to you isn’t narcissistic, just because a rando online or at the store takes issue with it. Applying to any job doesn’t make you NPD because some places only have a Walmart to work, get the gig and shut up and help yourself and other loved ones.
Lastly, fuck these retarded internet gurus that tell you it’s in phrases or other bullshit. They should all be de-monetized and no longer allowed to practice. They too busy using you as their flying monkeys to witch hunt people and be relevant like most wannabes, when the below average brigade that is the general public, don’t have the credibility or credentials to even type you.
Best in Your Girl 